What to Wear for a Family Photoshoot in South East London
Choosing what to wear for a family photoshoot can feel surprisingly overwhelming.
You want everyone to look coordinated, feel comfortable, and still feel like themselves — without it looking too styled or forced.
I photograph families across Bexley and South East London, including Sidcup, Welling and Eltham, and one of the most common questions I’m asked is what to wear for a family photoshoot.
Whether your session takes place in my studio, at your home or at an outdoor location in South East London, I'll help you choose outfits that complement both your surroundings and your family's style.
The good news is — it doesn’t need to be complicated.
Keep Colours Soft, Neutral and Timeless
Soft, neutral tones photograph beautifully and help keep the focus on your family, rather than your clothing.
Think:
- Creams and whites
- Soft greys
- Beige and warm tones
- Muted earthy colours
These tones work beautifully for family photoshoots in South East London, especially in natural light, creating a calm and cohesive look across your images.
Coordinate, Don’t Match
You don’t need everyone wearing the exact same outfit.
Instead, aim for:
- A shared colour palette
- Complementary tones
- Simple textures
This creates a natural, effortless feel without looking overly styled.
Choose Comfort for Everyone
Comfort is key — especially when children are involved.
During a family photography session, you’ll be moving, interacting and spending time together, so wearing clothing that feels relaxed and easy makes a big difference.
If someone feels uncomfortable, it will show in the photos — so always prioritise comfort.
Keep Patterns and Logos Minimal
To keep your photos timeless, it’s best to avoid:
- Bold patterns
- Large logos or text
- Bright or neon colours
Simple clothing helps keep the focus on connection, expression and emotion.
Think About the Setting for Your Family Photoshoot in South East London
Your outfit choices can also reflect where your session takes place.
For outdoor family photoshoots in South East London:
- Soft textures and layers work beautifully
- Neutral tones complement natural surroundings
For indoor or more minimal sessions:
- Clean, simple outfits create a timeless look
If you're unsure which season to book, you may also enjoy my guide on Best Time of Year for Family Photos in South East London, where I explain the benefits of spring, summer, autumn and winter family sessions.
Simple Outfit Ideas That Always Work
If you’re unsure where to start, these combinations work beautifully:
- Mum: flowing dress or soft knitwear
- Dad: neutral t-shirt or shirt with simple trousers
- Children: soft, comfortable outfits in coordinating tones
Even something simple like denim paired with neutral colours works beautifully and feels natural and relaxed.
You Don’t Need to Overthink It
It’s easy to feel pressure to get everything “perfect”, but family photography isn’t about perfectly styled outfits.
It’s about:
- Connection
- Personality
- Real moments together
The most meaningful images come when you feel comfortable and present.
Planning Your Family Photoshoot in South East London
If you're getting ready for your family session, you may also find these guides helpful:
- Best Time of Year for Family Photos in South East London
- How to Prepare for Your Family Photoshoot in Bexley & South East London
Together, these guides will help you choose the best time for your session and feel relaxed and prepared on the day.
If you’re preparing for your session, you may also find my guides on what to wear for a newborn photoshoot and what to wear for a maternity photoshoot helpful — especially if your family photos include a new baby or are part of your pregnancy journey.
Planning ahead helps everything feel calm and relaxed on the day.
A Natural, Relaxed Family Photography Experience
If you're looking for a family photographer in South East London or Bexley, you can find more information about my family photography sessions on my Family & Baby Photography page, or get in touch if you'd like guidance on styling or booking.
Frequently Asked Questions About Family Photoshoot Outfits
What colours are best for family photos?
Soft, neutral tones such as cream, beige, grey and muted pastels create a timeless look.
Should we wear matching outfits?
Rather than matching exactly, I recommend choosing outfits in complementary colours and similar tones. This creates a timeless, natural look while allowing everyone's personality to shine through.
What if my children won’t cooperate?
That’s completely normal. Sessions are relaxed and child-led, so there’s no pressure.
Can grandparents or extended family join the session?
Absolutely. Extended family sessions can be a wonderful way to capture multiple generations together. If you're planning a larger family session, just let me know when booking so we can plan accordingly.




